get tested for STDS, and my convincing won't work, I mean I know it's really none of my business but IU think it's immature and selfish of her, because when she meets her hubby and carries a disease that she doesn't know about and passes it to him and if she has sex, she should be mature enough to get checked for STDS, so how can I try to change her mind?
My friend has had sex with a couple random guys she met off the internet and she still won't?
she should get tested because she has ****** lots of guys!
My friend has had sex with a couple random guys she met off the internet and she still won't?
if she later wants to have kids tell her that a std could prevent it. im not sure what its called but its there
youve tried. do nothing more. its all on her hands now. it is not your issue. how she runs her sex life is how she runs it. whatever she throws away and mistreats now with intimacy, she pays for later. as for the STD's she will pay later if she gets really sick and wish she had listened to you.
strap her to a chair and ***** slap her.
Wow! I am amazed at your friend's behavior in this day and age of heightened awareness of what can happen to women who meet men online. She is incredibly naive or just plain stupid, sorry, it's true. You have done all you can do. What really needs to change is her behavior; it could prove dangerous to her in so many ways other than just an STD. If I was you I would fear for her life.
Just tell the next guy she tries to get with about it, and anyway obviously having sex doesn't have anything to do with being mature...
Relax :)
K, that was wrong of her to do!
Ur right, she should be mature enought to get checked.
But She might be scared to know, If she does have a disease..insurance companys will make a hard time for her along with other pernament stuff.
When she does get married, remined her to tell her husband of the mestake she made and then have her tested...or before marrage..
have you told her having sex with 1 person is like having sex with 1 million people (there is a tv ad for it)
when you say a couple, are you say 3 or 4 or are we talking a guy every week?
even if she uses protection, it isn't quite 100% eeffective, anything can happen.
Also std's can affect future children/ can't quite think of the word but she may have trouble falling pregnant, in the future, if she can fall pregnant at all.
also, a std can be treated but ultimately, you don't get rid of it, it's not like the flu, once you got an std, its there forever.
all you can do is gently tell her your worried and your only telling her to get checked because you care about her...you can also ask if she wants children in the future, does she want to be on medication for the rest of her life?
plus...she can infect other people if she has an std...and a test will tell her if she has it or not, if so she needs to treat it, she can end up in alot of trouble if she doesn't
stds are nasty and having a check up would not hurt anyone, and it would give a peace of mind knowing if she has an std or not.
you can also give the typical line %26quot;if you don't get checked i will be talking to your mum, i care about you and that's why im doing this%26quot;
you can change her mind. tell her mom to talk to her about it
well it's not really your place to force her or nag her about something personal,
and since she won't do what you feel best, then you should just leave her to her own decisions.
